Monday, March 26, 2012

The 4 Strategies of Attraction

The amount of dating and attraction advice that we have on almost daily basis is just huge. And also the more we read, the more confused we can get.

Should we play hard to get? Or do the contrary and demonstrate girls that we're interested in them? Should we be understanding and show empathy, or maybe "masculine" and reveal no emotions or feelings?The reality is that different methods work with other women, and also different techniques match different men.

So in today's article, I'll present you 4 common ways to provoke a woman's attraction to you. You may select what works and seems perfect for you.

Tease and Seem Uninterested
This way for attracting girls, is possibly the most popular amongst various relationship and pick-up gurus.
The idea behind this is that when you don't show interest in a woman, particularly if she's attractive and good-looking, it shows that you are a very attractive man, who has plenty of women in his life.

Also, the majority of men give women quite special treatment; they give compliments, purchase gifts, etc. By not behaving as such an typical "nice guy", you get girls curious and interested about you. It also seems that although you're acting like a "bad boy", at least you aren't fake like some other men.
Plus at last, being this bad man is a challenge for women, and women love challenges.

Fun and Exciting
One more way to draw in women is by behaving very enjoyable and fun. It means telling tales, being special, making use of humor and much more.

This way is very successful in public gathering like parties, pubs and clubs.
Being the centre of interest has always been attractive to girls.

Social Proof
Yet another method for building attraction is by using a woman's natural attraction to leaders and sociable men.
The idea here is that if a girl sees you in the company of some other girls, she naturally feels drawn to you.

Not only girls, even talking to men is very good. If a woman encounters you talking to different men and women, it completely presses her attraction buttons. If you ever wondered why staying alone didn't get you laid, then here is the answer.

Anytime you go out to night clubs or pubs, social proof can become your key tactic. Prior to beginning talking to the girls you want, generate social proof first.

What I do when I enter a nightclub, I start talking to various people (men AND girls), I tell them stories, have exciting moments, present them to each other. And women in the club, particularly the hot ones, are always conscious and see me.

If I approach the girl that I'm interested in, she already wants and waits to chat to me.

Truly Understand Her
When you check with girls, what bothers them about guys, they frequently complain of "not being understood".

Women frequently feel that men are shallow and lack emotions. Furthermore, it feels like guys only care about having sex.

An additional method to attract girls is once again about being different. Don't care on having sex or getting laid. Simply chat with women, be interesting of course, yet concentrate on trying to understand how they feel, what they truly feel. Try to understand their emotions.

This strategy will not only get women attracted to you, but it will as well get them get in love. So be cautious.

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